Black Mistress Edinburgh 13-15th July

By public demand your beautiful black mistress was requested to be back to Edinburgh and i already have a line up for servants ready to kiss my supreme black feet.

I have only few limited spaces so book your session NOW. You will expected to pay a deposit as i dont have time nor patience for timewasters


Madame Caramel

How to Find a Pro Domme and Become Her Favorite Pet

You want Her to beat you. You want Her to humiliate you. You want Her to own your miserable ass. It’s not rocket science, but there is a right way and a wrong way to make contact with a Dominatrix.

Male SlaveFind Her. You might find Her on Twitter, you might use a Mistress Directory Here you will find the best & Visiting Dominas. You might Google Her. Either way, the first step is finding the right Mistress for you.
Do Your Homework. Spend some time on Her website (and Twitter feed!) – and not just perving her pics you filthy pig. Read what She has written. Make sure She is the right fit for you. For example, if you really, really want to be pegged, make sure She offers that service. If you like trampling, make sure She is a CBT aficionado. If you choose a Domme who doesn’t match your interests, then don’t blame Her if you’re unsatisfied. Be honest with Her and with yourself!
Follow Her rules. Most FemDoms have a preferred method for you to make contact. Many expect you to submit an application. Take the time to do it right. Don’t think that you’re a special case, and forget thinking that YOU, special boy, deserve any extra attention. Mistresses receive stacks of applications and inquiries. Trying to go through the backdoor will get you ignored.
Write well. Use proper grammar, complete sentences. Typos happen, but short choppy phrases, text speak, and careless correspondence will earn you disdain. Take the time to write clearly and to write in detail. She deserves it.
Be deferential. Yes, you’re the client, but She is the fucking Dominatrix. Know your place. Refer to Her with respect and humble yourself. No, you don’t necessarily have to beg, but you should avoid sounding demanding, insistent, impatient or with any sense that you anything but undeserving of Her time.
Capitalize. Refer to Her as “You” and “Mistress.” Most Dommes expect to receive this treatment, and as stated above, She deserves it.
Don’t Waste Her Time. Time wasters suck. Mistresses hate them. Be specific about places and times. Respond to Her messages quickly. Do not ask unnecessary questions. Do not expect Her to take any more time dealing with you than is absolutely necessary. If you are lucky enough to win an appointment with Her, be on time. No, be early – unless She tells you otherwise.
Be Grateful and Generous. Express your sincere appreciation for Her time. Tell Her thank you often – before, during and after your session. Send Her a gift after your session – flowers, a new toy, an article of clothing, shoes, anything on Her gift list – and She will remember you well. Yes, Her session fee is set, but Mistresses appreciate clients who appreciate them. Bring a gift every time you see Her or overpay. You don’t have to double the session fee or buy Her £500 shoes to stand out. A thoughtful gift or an extra £50 or £100 will help get you noticed. Even bringing your session fee in a nice and thoughtful greeting card is an extra tough that She will remember.
Be Clean. Nothing will get you remembered poorly faster than showing up to a session smelling badly. Shower that day, ideally immediately prior to your session. Do not come to Her dungeon wearing grubby clothes and smelling like you just took a shit on the subway. Be well groomed and dress in an attractive manner, and She will take notice of you.
Be Obedient. Do what She says, when she says to do it. If She tells you to bring something to your session, have it. If She tells you to wait, do so patiently. She is in charge, and your goal is to show Her your complicity, obedience and desire to please Her.
Will these 10 steps guarantee that you of become any Mistress’s favorite pet? No. They will help ensure you always move toward the top of Her correspondence, and they will earn you favor for Her time and Her appreciation of you, which is ultimately what you want.

Written by Under Heels

Femdom Winter Ball 10th October

Mistresses, lifestyle couples and naturally submissive men from all over the world, join us for a celebration of Female Supremacy


10th October 2015
7pm – 1am

Our venue is an exclusive private members club in London and we promise you an unforgettable night of live entertainment, play, , prizes from our sponsors and a multitude of hedonistic pleasures…

We will not be revealing the location to everyone, and it will remain a secret until 12am on the morning of October 10th.

We have limited tickets due to Summer Ball Cancellation buy your ticket now Buy your ticket here.

Please Note:

No parking available
Smoking is only permitted outside the venue, please ensure you are appropriately attired to leave the club
The club runs a strict NO PHONE policy
Hotels in the area:

(we can’t recommend any of these, they are simply a list we found on Google with good positive reviews)
Hilton London Tower Bridge
Citizen M
Crown Plaza
The Tower
Grange City Hotel
Andaz Liverpool St
Premier Inn

The proceeds of our charity raffle will go to The Spanner Trust, a charity dedicated to reversing the anti BDSM laws in the UK. Tickets will be on sale throughout the night and the following are the prizes from our wonderful and generous sponsors
A whip from Essentia Whips
An original Femdom illustration from Sardax ‘s archives
A personal session with Sardax at a later date, with sketches to be made on the night
Six of Sardax’s illustrated Venus in Furs books
One weekday overnight at Hoxton Dungeon Suite
One weekend overnight at Hoxton Dungeon Suite
Lifetime listing on
Joanna Lark’s Humiliation paddle in the shape of foot
Joanna Lark’s Leather blindfolds with white trim
Joanna Lark’s Hairy leather slapper which can be also a fan
Dungeon Manor – 3 night 4 day stay in the domme lodge for touring Mistresses
Dungeon Manor – 1 night 2 day stay in the domme lodge for touring Mistresses
Dungeon Manor – 3 hour dungeon rental

Thank you all for your support

Black Mistresses Femdom Play Party

Madame Caramel and her fellow Black Mistress Dommes friends will host exclusive and elite Femdom parties for a few, very select, lovers of Black Dominants. Only a few creme de la creme submissives will be invited to attend this parties.

It will be the same concept as Club Black Whip but in an even more private setting. This is not for novices nor for people who like bargains.

These parties will be suitable for mature genuine slaves and bi-boys with experience. The kind who know exactly what they want and who are willing and waiting to submit to the most gorgeous Black Mistresses in the UK.


Almost everything will be allowed at this parties, limits of course respected but more likely to be stretched. So be prepared to experience all you ever dreamt.

The parties will be held at the beautiful BDSM apartment Hoxton Dungeon Suite with a CF/nm strict dress code (Clothed Female/naked male)

High protocol is expected and you must adhere to that at all times. When applying make sure you tell us about yourself and attach a clear photo (3 lines email or cock shots will be ignored)

Deposit will be always necessary to book your place by bank transfer

Check Club Black Page for Details & Dates

Ladies in Attendance

Madame Caramel
Mistress Kiana
Mistress Esme
Mistress Ika
Mistress Liberty Domme
Lady Andromeda
Mistress Minaj
Miss Fox
Pretty Painless
Miss Delilah

Express your interest by email me

Learn The Slave Positions

My dear friend Lady Ezada Sinn created them and i loved them. Truly useful that all slaves learn them by heart.

Especially the ones that wish to serve me the Leading London’s Black mistress must learn it and know them by heart. Im planning to do a clip of me showing all this positions with my servants @Joris1978.

But I made one with Ezada at the FEMDOM RETREAT.

I demand all my servants , fans, lovers to Buy it , its an order

Your supreme London Black Mistress

Madame Caramel

Gift Your Black Mistress

There is no better way to show appreciation for your favourite black mistress, in this case me. I have adoring fans, slaves & servants all over the world and i receive gifts on a daily basis.

Is such a trill when i’m back from my trips or just sat on my black mistress boudoir and the postman arrives. I still feel very excited.


MY bills are taking care by my servants so i only have good news when postman arrives gifts gifts gifts for your beautiful London black mistress .

I truly appreciate the gifts and will be thanking your personally and posting on twitter . Keep me happy send me more gifts

Buy me a gift. Dont forget to put your name and twitter name if you have one so i can say thank you.

Yours London Black Mistress

Madame Caramel