Madame Caramel

Maid Protocol

Here are some basic steps in Being a proper Sissy Maid. And of course you have to mastered them all!


The most important thing a sissy maid must do is curtsy. Curtsying shows both respect and humility. It is also important because it shows submission and an acceptance of the sissy maid’s role and position. Every sissy maid must know how to properly curtsy so that she may better serve her Mistress.

Below are the 5 steps of the curtsy:

1. Always smile!

2. Elegantly place your right foot behind your left foot so your ankles are crossed.

3. Take hold of the hem of your dress at the sides. You want to make sure your actions are sissy-like, so hold it with your fingertips!

4. Slowly and elegantly bend at only the knees, dipping, making sure you pull up slightly on the hem and hold it out.

5. Once you have completed your dip, rise back up just as elegantly and return to your original stance. Make sure you smooth your dress and smile!


Serving properly is a very important thing to know for any of us sissy maids. When Mistress wants her breakfast served to her in bed, or when she is having over her friends for dinner, how do you properly serve? The proper way to serve is of course to do it with a smile on your face and make sure that you bend over at the waist only. As you bend, push your sissy ass up into the air a little more than normal. A sissy maid who knows how to serve properly will be able to better impress the Mistress and Her friends with her skills.


Another very important thing for all sissy maids is posture. No Mistress would want a maid who does not sit and stand and mince like a sissy.


Although most maids are not allowed much time to sit (after all we do have duties don’t we?) it is valuable to know how to sit at those times when it is acceptable. The proper way for a sissy to sit is with her back straight, head forward, legs crossed, and hands neatly and prettily folded in her lap. The only other acceptable way for a sissy to sit is with her feet back and to the side, one foot over the other so they are crossed, and her hands neatly clasped in her lap. Of course she must also be sitting up straight, as that is very important for good posture.

Also sissies, don’t forget to smooth your dress over your bottom as you sit and to smooth it when you rise. Always make sure your actions are feminine and sissy-like!


Walking in a proper manner is an art. It takes much practice and concentration to master. A sissy must walk with her shoulders back, head up, and one foot in front of the other. Sissy’s hands can either swing inward; one hand is resting on her hip, or daintily held. Her legs should be together, and her hips should hold a certain sway. Her steps should be small and pretty. Most of the time she should actually only step a half a foot. This insures that she must take much more steps and her hips will be swaying, especially since a sissy maid must often report to her Mistress’s call quickly. Walking properly is an art form and with enough practice and work any sissy can do it in a very sissy-like manner.

Submissive Servitude

A sissy maid must always serve in a manner that is submissive and obedient. As many of us maids have found out, not doing that can get us punished, and no maid wants to be punished. Therefore you must strive to please your Mistress, no matter what she asks of you. One time a former Mistress told me that I should always be smiling, because she thought that my smile is lovely. She said that every sissy maid should be cheery and happy while at service. It was very hard for me to constantly smile, but I did, and my Mistress told me that she made me smile for 10 hours straight. There is always a lesson to be learned in my punishments, and this lesson is one I will never forget. A sissy maid should always be obedient to her Mistress, but she should also always be cheery and have a happy disposition. Serving Mistress is to be considered an honor, and we maids should be happy to be in service. Remember maids; serve obediently with a cheery smile!

Duties and Domestic Servitude

1. Wear what Mistress instructs

2. Kitchen work

a. light cooking b. meal serving c. dish washing d. thorough cleaning e. organise cabinets f. sweep and mop floor

3. Bathroom work

a. scrub sink, toilet and shower b. replenish supplies as needed c. sweep and mop floor

4. Bedroom work

a. make bed b. organise clothes and shoes c. vacuum floor d. dust furniture

65Secretarial work

a. assist as needed and instructed b. dust and organize library

6. Entertaining guests

a. prepare snacks b. direct additional help c. serve drinks and snacks d. thorough cleaning as needed e. be available for fetch duty f. be prepared if needed as demo

7. Dungeon work

a. clean all equipment properly b. dust all furniture c. vacuum floor d. put all equipment in proper place e. replenish supplies as needed f. assess equipment for safety regularly

8. Other

a. be prepared for the needs of Mistress b. maintain proper protocol at all times c. be mindful of a pleasant attitude d. Mistress may modify these duties

By your sissymaid vow of obedience you will agree to the following:

1. you will be taught the proper house routine, including, but not limited to:

a. morning duties b. breakfast prep, serving and clean up c. household daily/weekly tasks d. ongoing attendance to Mistress’s needs at all times e. lunch prep, etc. f. afternoon household tasks continued from morning g. special task, class, training or recreation break if duties are caught up at that point, if not continue household duties h. dinner prep, etc. j. evening duties

3. you will report promptly to the Mistress for training, correction or conference whenever summoned.

4. you will keep a “transgression book” as taught by the Mistress, subject to review at any time.

5. you will observe the specifics of your sissymaid vows at all times.

6. you will accompany the Mistress on errands as needed and stay where you are told to stay, whether in the car or at her side.

7. you will practice all aspects of courtesy and protocol, as taught by the Mistress, at all times.

8. you will learn to serve drinks to the Mistress properly and do so at all times, except when in “vanilla” presence. To do otherwise is disrespectful and insulting to the Mistress.

Madame Caramel

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